unbelievable news
cannot type the letter that sonds like yew [update: cut-and-pasted a u in here & there]
kyboard broken bec i spilled diet coke on keyboard earlier today bt what came later was worse:
performer is going back to his wife.
his advice to me:
don’t date a man who isn’t flly divorced when yo meet him.
bt gess what? they’re divorced! and plan to stay that way.
getting new keyboard tomorrow so will write more then.
all words of condolence, sympathy, comfort, offers or whatever — accepted!
thank yo, friends in the blogosphere. looking forward to hearing from yew.
mimi
December 17, 2007 at 3:32 am
We missed you today, and will see you soon. You’re in my thoughts.
December 17, 2007 at 3:35 am
Oh noooooo! That’s terrible. I am so sorry to hear this.
December 17, 2007 at 4:03 am
Mimi- I am so sorry to hear this! I am very curious to hear the details though. Most importantly, I hope you are okay. I’m sure you are shocked and upset, but just know we are all here for you, as are your friends and family. We (in the blogosphere) are here for you whenever you need us!
December 17, 2007 at 4:43 am
I am speechless.
Just speechless.
I’d like to give him a swift kick and you a big hug.
December 17, 2007 at 5:41 am
thank yo all very very mch. [keyboard still can't type yew!]
yr kind words mean a lot to me.
more manana when i can type all the letters of the alphabet….
mimi
December 17, 2007 at 8:00 am
Sorry to hear about the guy.
December 17, 2007 at 4:21 pm
thanks, fbc.
December 21, 2007 at 10:29 pm
mimi…so sorry to hear this..i’m late in reading all this.
i always wonder how men (i know some women too, but not you or i) can be so two faced…i can’t think of another term for it.
my ex husband floated back and forth between me and his new girlfriend for two years of our separation telling her we weren’t having sex….even though we were…and going to marriage counseling.
i think it’s detachment from their feelings, seeing everything with tunnel vision, no consideration for anyone else’s feelings…
big hugs to you!!!
December 21, 2007 at 11:14 pm
thank you, tracya. the term one of my readers came up w. is that he was ‘keeping his options open,’ and i think that says it all. i was his fallback woman, in case she decided not to come back to him after all!
December 21, 2007 at 11:33 pm
makes you wonder how fragile a man’s ego is that he has to have some/any woman on a string, just in case…
here we are… perfectly capable, intelligent, sexy women….alone…
i don’t feel the need to boost my self esteem by playing on men’s emotions.
hey, i can do one night stands, friends with privileges….but this is what i struggle with in my current relationship….
call it what it is….if performer had said he was undecided about the future with his wife…then it’s your call if you’d want to continue, you’ve been forewarned.
maybe we, as women do hold all the cards…we have friends and family..and the rabbit!!!
December 26, 2007 at 11:40 am
Oh, Mimi, that’s so sad… I’m so sorry to hear that. I hope you’re doing alright. I’ll be thinking about you.