Archive for December, 2007

the last post of the year: get out your kleenex

December 31, 2007

Or is it kleenexes?
Kleenices?
Tissues.
Well whatever it is, I need ‘em. And you might, too.
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I just wanted to say a bloggy thank you to two old friends who rescued me on the two major holidays this season: to Marion (friend of 43 years) who changed her plans to come [...]

the jdate colonoscopy

December 29, 2007

No, no, it’s not what you’re thinking —
– if this perchance is what you’re imagining:
All the men I’ve met on jdate over the past 18 months crowd into the little room at the doctor’s and keep me company during this ritual of middle age, the colonoscopy. They want to know [...]

end of a romance: an interview

December 23, 2007

SO MIMI –
Yeeesssssssssss??
HOW ARE YOU DOING?
So well that I’m mystified. Why am I relieved that I don’t have to see Performer again, that it’s all over, when a week ago today I would have said I loved him? Dating Trooper (in a comment to the previous post) asked me why I felt [...]

new girl in town (again….)

December 21, 2007

Well, I have a richly detailed post comparing the breakups with Rolly and with Performer ready to roll, but I thought I’d lighten up a bit and get you up-to-date on my renewed social life before returning to the juicy stuff in the next post.
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Okay, so, I rejoined [...]

Part 2 of Lies, Lies, Lies etc. (with interesting update)

December 19, 2007

This will be the second and final post with this title; I have lots more to say on other (but related) subjects. (For background, see first post on this ever-fascinating subject.)
Performer’s emails
This past weekend, 14 - 16 December, was the weekend when, Performer told me, Becky was driving down with their children [...]

Lies, Lies, Lies

December 17, 2007

Hi, Adele! Hi, Joanna! Hi, Harvey! Hi, Jules!
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Those are the friends (a cellist, an old friend married to a pianist, his brother, and his therapist) to whom Performer sent my blog-address, asking them to read my blog and see what they thought of it — [...]

unbelievable news

December 17, 2007

cannot type the letter that sonds like yew [update: cut-and-pasted a u in here & there]
kyboard broken bec i spilled diet coke on keyboard earlier today bt what came later was worse:
performer is going back to his wife.
his advice to me:
don’t date a man who isn’t flly divorced when yo meet him.
bt gess what? [...]

the last Xmas with my eX

December 15, 2007

On our last Christmas together — wait a sec, it was hardly ‘our,’ because we didn’t experience it the same way — and we never had, over the previous 23 years — and it wasn’t really ‘Christmas,’ because we’re both Jewish, though I was brought up with Christmas, and he’s now posing pompously [...]

advice needed for excellent eligible man in his late 40s

December 12, 2007

First a word on my new heading: it’s a picture taken by me with my new Canon PowerShot A550 (my first digital camera; I’m the last person on the planet to get one — even the natives of the rainforest have had digital cameras for years), looking northeast from Belvedere Castle in Central Park sometime [...]

“a year ago today…”

December 10, 2007

A year ago today (Sunday 10 December 2006) I was in Immanuel Lutheran Church at 88th and Lexington listening to the New Amsterdam Singers performing their wonderful Christmas Concert.

I was with Rolly; we were sitting on the right side of the center aisle, about the sixth row from the front, probably the third and fourth [...]