cleavage?
For my mid-week, mid-afternoon, midtown coffee date with the suburban widowed septuagenarian, should I wear a cleavage-revealing skin-tight little top?
I think not.
This may be his first, or one of his first, post-widowerhood dates (or so I suspect), and I don’t want to scare him (but then, what man has ever been scared by cleavage?).
However, I also don’t want to attract him, really, because a couple of the other possibilities seem a little hotter to me.
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I have a few days to consider this momentous issue.
May 24, 2007 at 2:25 pm
So, what did you decide on the cleavage? This is something I consider with my non-widower dates. I usually go with a hint, so as not to raise expectations too high.
May 24, 2007 at 2:35 pm
It’s now 10:30 a.m., and at 2:15 p.m. or so (one of those bright-sunshine-not-sexy afternoon dates) I’ll leave my apartment dressed for meeting the widower….I think the attire will _not_ be serious-cleavage-revealing. If I want to have a good chat with him, and I think that’s the highest expectation I should have, then I need to dress in a not-distracting way.
But I have a 6 p.m. date with a more eligible man, and for him, I’ll slip into a little something more revealing, an OnlyHearts (Helena Stuart) camisole….